How I taught my five kids to read

How I taught my five kids to read, with simple and effective resources included! Fearless Homeschool.

 

I have a problem with the title of this post. Yes, I wrote it, but it needed to be short, snappy and clear to people who were looking for information. How I Facilitated my Five Children in Becoming Confident, Voracious Readers was simply too long and confusing. But here’s why I think the second title would be far more suitable.

For some strange reason, we give all the praise to the teacher. I have been told a number of times how great a teacher I am. When my girls were young and reading in public people would come over and shower me with praise, while my seven year old reading chapter books was mostly ignored. Maybe they got a slightly patronising pat on the head, and asked whether they were enjoying their book in that ‘special’ voice reserved for kids (does that put your teeth on edge too?).

My opinion is different. I haven’t even put in a hundredth of the effort my kids have. All I do is show them how to decode the language, step by step. They manage to remember it all, the varying letter sounds, the tricky and sometimes senseless digraphs, and apply it. It takes me less than half an hour a week. They will practice for hours and hours, over years, before they truly master it.

The child is the one who deserves recognition of her effort.

Anyway, rant over. But I think it serves to put your role into perspective – the learner is the most important part of your duo. You simply supply the tools, the time, and the guidance. And the fun!

Without further ado, here’s how we helped five kids to become avid and competent readers.

Step 1 – Instil a love of reading

Don’t start with the reading programs! Learning any skill needs motivation. Loving books provides that motivation for your child. Buy kids books as presents, take them to the library and encourage them to borrow whatever they like, provide quiet time for them to read (yes, just studying the pictures is great), and promote books as precious stores of enjoyment and knowledge.

And of course, read aloud. Reading aloud is the best thing you can do. If you can start young do so, but if they’re older you can’t start any earlier. Read anything that they want you to – kids of most ages still enjoy picture books. And sometimes you’ll be bored – I have to read Rex his train and truck books ALL THE TIME. But because I do, his main motivation for doing reading lessons has been so he can read them himself. Kids don’t want to wait around until you have the time.

Click here to download our list of our favourite books to read aloud

A personalised reading from you is always best, but feel free to supplement with audiobooks. They’ll also help you become a better reader – quality audiobooks are read by people with style and flair, and you can adopt any techniques that you enjoy.

We also celebrate milestones. When mine were capable of reading an Enid Blyton book by themselves (I have a set of about 70 from when I was young, and they’re treasured) I made them their own library bag in the fabrics of their choice. They were always so proud to take it to the library, with their card tucked in the pocket, and borrow their own books.

Step 2 – Use simple but effective resources WHEN YOUR CHILD IS READY

I know there’s all those programs claiming to Teach your Baby to Read! etc, but they’re not realistic. The National Curriculum isn’t much better, drilling reading skills at a young age (is it any wonder so many kids end up in so-called remedial reading, with long-term feelings of being a dummy? They’re not remedial, they’re just not ready!)

Just as bad are programs that overcomplicate things. You’ve probably seen them – you need to buy a series of student books, plus teacher books, plus flashcards, plus special early readers, and do the computer program too. They’re simply playing on insecurities. They harder and more mysterious they make learning to read seem, the more money you’ll be happy to pay them to alleviate your anxiety. Sharks.

It’s that perceived difficulty that make people send their kids to school just to learn to read. Seriously! I’ve met a handful of people who love the idea of homeschooling, but are not confident enough in their ability to teach to read to homeschool from the start. It’s really not as difficult as schools and companies make it out to be!

Another rant over! Can you tell reading is a topic I’m extremely passionate about?

 

 

Here’s what I used for my three girls and Forrest. They became independent readers (in our family that’s reading those Enid Blyton books) at 5, 6, 6, and 7.

Stairway to Reading – this is a remedial reading program, but teaches all the skills needed from scratch. You get structured lessons and reading material and bingo games to match them. The best part is that it’s FREE! A donation is encouraged, and when you see how wonderful this resource is you’ll be happy to give one.

Click here to download Stairway to Reading.

Reading Reflex – Stairway didn’t provide quite enough practice for my kids. It’s fair enough, it’s a supplement, not a full program. Reading Reflex is also a remedial program, with plenty of stories. It has a great introduction section for the parent which I found reassuring – it’s very confident about your ability to help your child.

Click here to learn more about Reading Reflex.

We supplemented both with early readers borrowed from the library, lots of reading aloud (by them and me), and lots of snuggling up together. Physical contact makes hard work seem much more fun.

If you choose to use another program, make sure it gives your child instant results. Kids want to read, and they don’t need to learn every single letter sound, digraph and phoneme before they do. Some programs don’t provide reading material until lesson 30 or later – it’s simply too long to wait. Stairway to Reading and Reading Reflex provide reading practice after the first 12 sounds.

Step 3 – Rinse and repeat for children with special needs, or those who need more practice

Again, you don’t need fancy-pants programs, unless your child has a specific condition requiring them. Repetition is best. You may need to show your child something lots of times before it sinks in. They may not pick up patterns automatically, and may need a lot of extra help. Most importantly, don’t have any expectations. When a child is running to their own schedule you need to accept that they may not read until much older than you want them to. It’s perfectly OK. Stick to their ability, keep it fun, and stay patient. Easier said than done sometimes, I know!

Rex reading Bob Books (phonics early readers)

 

Rex is now 10, and is not quite reading independently. He can read beginning phonics readers. While we use all of the resources listed above, here’s the extras i’ve added in to give him more practice and repetition.

Teach your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons – This book is designed to teach your children from the start. It uses symbols and bolding with letters to show different sounds, which has been fantastic for a child who needs things pointed out to him.

Click here to learn more about 100 Easy Lessons.

Bob Books – These are the best phonics readers I have ever seen! If I knew about them when the girls were learning they would have used them too. They’re simple but interesting, and the grading in them is gradual and logical. Their progression matches all the programs i’ve listed.

Click here to learn more about the first box of Bob Books.

Hopefully, this has encouraged you to let go of some of your stress around learning to read, and to give it a try. If you have any questions our Facebook group is a great place to ask.

Are you worried about reading? How have you taught your kids to read! Please share in the comments!

 

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    • Laura
    • September 15, 2017
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    I began teaching my little boy his letters and sounds at age two. He picked up on it pretty quickly, so we went on to phonemic awareness (rhyming, beginning letter sounds, etc.) Just before he turned three, he began sounding out words and reading small sentences. I haven’t bought any curriculum or reading program. I wrote little books that I knew he could read. It wasn’t that difficult to teach him. I know that every child is different, but it is quite possible to teach your child to read.

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      Exactly Laura – it’s really not that hard in a literature-rich home. Well done with your efforts, it sounds like it’s all going well.

      Kelly.

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